What If being âFeminineâ Isnât Something You Can Get Right or Wrong?
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Maybe youâve explored popular polarity work, but something about it doesnât sit right. You donât want to âlean backâ into your feminine just to keep the peace. You donât want your relationship to feel like performance. You want something expansive, authentic, and real.
Your relationships don't need more rules and rigidity -- but they can come alive with juicy vitality through playing with the energetic foundations that drive all of creation.
Liberating relationships aren't about following rules - they're about understanding energy.
the UNION framework moves beyond rigidity and teaches you how to work with the fundamental energies of creationâyin and yangâto cultivate vital deliciousness in ALL your relationships, whether you:
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are with your partner, child or coworker
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are gay or straight
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resonate with norms of "femininity" or not
...because this isn't about dogma, this is HOLY UNION, inside and out.
In UNION, you will:
- Feel the Truth of Polarity, beyond the "rules" of masculine/feminine norms:
unpack where popular polarity teachings often miss the mark and play with new frameworks for creating spaciousness and vitality in your relationships  - Actually Understand Your Lover/Child/Friend/Boss through the biology of relating
How estrogen & testosterone influence our perception of the worldâand why that matters for communication, intimacy, and conflict resolution. - Turn Conflicts into Medicine:  Practice how to meet conflict with play and opportunity, and cultivate deeper nourishment in your relationships
- Integrate your relationship with femaleness, gender and femininity: detangle sex & sexuality, gender and expression -- beyond popular ideology
- Create a Culture of Intact Family Systems:Â how relational liberation in yourself and your family system can create a ripple effect in your greater community
the practical transformation of relational alchemy:
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âThe way you talk about yin yang made all the polarity work Iâve done finally make sense⌠Youâve been integral in my understanding of being a woman and have helped me reorient in womb, heart, and relationships.â
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âIâm just going to say itâthis transformed my marriage. I finally feel like I understand my husband AND my own needs⌠the resentment has melted and in its place, connection has bloomed.â
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âI can see and feel the difference in who I am, and what I believe, and how I show up in the world⌠Iâve finally made enough space, through the slowness, to allow real change to occur. ITâS WILD.â
What if the friction in your relationships isnât a problem to fix, but a portal to freedom?
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Thatâs what UNION is about. Itâs a different way of relatingâone that honors both biology and energy, yin and yang, sovereignty and togetherness. A way that dissolves the pressure to "get it right" and instead teaches you how to move in integrity with your heart and in service to union, inside and out.
Frequently Asked Questions
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We're here for a creating a culture of liberation in our bodies, relationships, and communities.
Qiddist & Maura have been teaching and learning together for the past 8 years. Rooted in lineages of Taoism, midwifery, quantum physics, elemental magic, internal family systems, psychobiology and more, their work holds the both/and of science & mystery, earth & cosmos, knowledge & intuitive wisdom.
Together, Qiddist and Maura bring the gift of teaching across difference -- across race and sexual orientation, background and experience -- to offer a dissolving of dogma and nuanced, playful approach to transformation.
Come play with us